It’s actually rather charming to see a girl who’s been hit… properly. If the marks aren’t vivid, if your skin doesn’t burn, if you can’t feel my presence in every square inch of you… Well, then we’re clearly a long way from done.

It’s actually rather charming to see a girl who’s been hit… properly. If the marks aren’t vivid, if your skin doesn’t burn, if you can’t feel my presence in every square inch of you… Well, then we’re clearly a long way from done.

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Obedience is a fine thing. Sometimes your discomfort, your shame, your fear, is my pleasure. And if these acts cease to be testing… well, then, I’ve made you into a very different kind of girl, and there is certainly great pleasure in having achieved that.
And then we escalate.

Obedience is a fine thing. Sometimes your discomfort, your shame, your fear, is my pleasure. And if these acts cease to be testing… well, then, I’ve made you into a very different kind of girl, and there is certainly great pleasure in having achieved that.

And then we escalate.

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Yes, you’re doing it right… for now. You may have a few moments to make yourself comfortable, to get familiar with me, before I take over and things will become rather more… intense. Enjoy taking a breath when you wish, while you still can.

Yes, you’re doing it right… for now. You may have a few moments to make yourself comfortable, to get familiar with me, before I take over and things will become rather more… intense. Enjoy taking a breath when you wish, while you still can.

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This is just the beginning… but you’re starting in the right place.

This is just the beginning… but you’re starting in the right place.

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Anonymous asked: I really enjoy kinky sex but most men are apprehensive to even try when I give them permission. Is there a website where a submissive and Dom can get together or even perhaps a dating website that can help me weed out the passive sexual men?

If you’ve not come across it, then fetlife is likely what you are looking for.

It’s not really arranged like a dating site, that’s not it’s primary purpose, but it’s a pretty good way to connect with people - either by finding those who are geographically close to you, or by posting in forums with people who have similar interests. Good luck with the search…

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Anonymous asked: Reading your blog is incredibly seductive. But for some of us, there is the stepping out into the real scene and discovering that many BDSM players are NOT very attractive and that good Doms are pretty rare, -and that is deeply discouraging... like we'd have a better chance at winning the lottery. I'm not a novice but my experiences (over ten years) have never gone beyond "that was interesting" and I will admit, sometimes I am resentful and despairing when I read your blog.

I’m sad to say that this is a story I hear rather too often… It does seem to be hard to find good partners, and good Doms in particular. And a bad Dom can be a horrible, dangerous, or just deeply disappointing thing.

The only thing I can say is that there is more and more information out there, more and more discussion, more and more presentations of the ‘right’ way to do things. We can only home that more people are taking the journey to understand themselves, understand their power, and understand how submissives work, that will allow them to be good and powerful Doms. God knows the rewards are worth it - even if the road is rather long, and rather hard.

I hope you find what you’re looking for… In the meantime I’ll keep blogging and home to inspire some Doms as to what is possible (and what is required), as well as making subs demand rather more.

Experience has lead me to strongly feel that the best anal is the anal that starts off painful and difficult, starts off as a fight, starts off as challenging and difficult… then slides into acceptance, relaxation and a kind of deep bliss that doesn’t seem to come about any other way. Perhaps it’s because that bliss is earned, because there’s a journey and a battle to get there…
For a twisted man like me to be able to give pain and profound pleasure with one act, with one fuck, is deeply satisfying… Particularly when the girl whispers “I think I like the painful bit best” at the end.

Experience has lead me to strongly feel that the best anal is the anal that starts off painful and difficult, starts off as a fight, starts off as challenging and difficult… then slides into acceptance, relaxation and a kind of deep bliss that doesn’t seem to come about any other way. Perhaps it’s because that bliss is earned, because there’s a journey and a battle to get there…

For a twisted man like me to be able to give pain and profound pleasure with one act, with one fuck, is deeply satisfying… Particularly when the girl whispers “I think I like the painful bit best” at the end.

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During her visit I introduced the Ingenue to the American Whore. It’s fair to say they got along pretty well… They were a good fit for each other, you might say.
The American Whore is 6’, and beautifully curvy… The Ingenue is 5’ and wonderfully petite. Both utterly gorgeous, but having them together was a little like being with a Great Dane and a Jack Russell - whilst you know that technically they are the same species, when you’re looking at them it’s actually quite hard to believe….
And yes, I know this must make it seem like I’m a lucky, lucky man - but take it from me, I *do* deserve it… :)
Oh, and let’s also be clear, in case she tries to deny it - it’s the American Whore who is getting so delightfully fisted. It’s a good day when you walk into your room to find two naked girls on your bed fighting because one of them is trying to fist the other. Better yet when you hold one of them down so that the fisting can proceed… 
Damn, I’ve had some good days.

During her visit I introduced the Ingenue to the American Whore. It’s fair to say they got along pretty well… They were a good fit for each other, you might say.

The American Whore is 6’, and beautifully curvy… The Ingenue is 5’ and wonderfully petite. Both utterly gorgeous, but having them together was a little like being with a Great Dane and a Jack Russell - whilst you know that technically they are the same species, when you’re looking at them it’s actually quite hard to believe….

And yes, I know this must make it seem like I’m a lucky, lucky man - but take it from me, I *do* deserve it… :)

Oh, and let’s also be clear, in case she tries to deny it - it’s the American Whore who is getting so delightfully fisted. It’s a good day when you walk into your room to find two naked girls on your bed fighting because one of them is trying to fist the other. Better yet when you hold one of them down so that the fisting can proceed… 

Damn, I’ve had some good days.

There are different kinds of ‘seductive’ looks, that are likely to have different kinds of affects… This particular ‘come play with me’ look is likely to have some pretty dramatic results, I would imagine…

There are different kinds of ‘seductive’ looks, that are likely to have different kinds of affects… This particular ‘come play with me’ look is likely to have some pretty dramatic results, I would imagine…

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There are nice ways to touch a girl, seductive ways, tender ways, teasing ways… And then there are *good* ways of touching a girl…
"Too much" is just about right….

There are nice ways to touch a girl, seductive ways, tender ways, teasing ways… And then there are *good* ways of touching a girl…

"Too much" is just about right….

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