I'm off to Copenhagen for a few days...
…anyone with good recommendations for where to go and where to eat whilst there… do drop me a line… The girl and I will be back after the weekend.
Anonymous asked: This is kinda weird to say, probably, but you seem like a really caring and responsible dominant. I've read some of your writings and answers to some questions, and I must say, you've really got a handle on things. It's always refreshing to see a Dom that knows perfectly well where the line is drawn.
Anonymous asked: hello. anima again :) just wanted to say thank you very much for your advice. really appreciate it. i will check out artofbabalon (your girlfirends site). thank you so much, i hope it works :) thanks again
Anonymous asked: How would you say to your partner that you are want to open your relationship without attacking the partner's self-esteem/saying they are inadequate?
Anonymous asked: hello. lets say my name is anima, i was recently dumped by my dom and i dont know how to deal with it. i read through your 'what are d/s break ups like' but i really need advice on how to deal with this. it wasnt dealt with well i dont think. i was simply told they didnt want to see me again. i gave my all to this person and i dont know how to carry on from this. any advice or comments...
I thought my “I love that someone captured this moment…” post below might prove controversial in some quarters. It has received a few shouty reblogs along the lines of “If she says no and means it and you don’t stop that’s abuse!” Nope. Or at least not if you know what you’re doing and you’ve got an experienced sub that you understand. Most...
Anonymous asked: As a new Dom I would like to ask if you provided a manual for Art of Babalon or if her training was set by precedence. My sub (wife of three and a half years) and I are new. I have started assembling a manual but it seem like it will be a lengthily document by the time I get everything in there and I don't want to be too hasty and forget anything. I was hoping for some direction of a Dom that...
Anonymous asked: Do you and your girl ever do something gentle and easygoing-- Like cuddling -- after a D/s round? And do you share a room, or are you two on separate sides of the house?
Anonymous asked: You have up and dissappeared. It is quite tragic because nobody compares to you. Hope to see you around soon.