If done with wisdom.
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I think many people don't really understand sex, and fewer still really understand D/s. It is transcendent and transformative, and frequently the dirtier it gets the more powerful and inspirational the effects... if you know what you're dong.
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As will become obvious I like girls submissive, bi, filthy and courageous. I'm lucky enough to have one, (and if you'd like to know more about her, she has her own rather lovely blog at artofbabalon) but I'm always looking for more... If you'd like another way to communicate with me you can find me on Fetlife as MageofBabalon, or you can email me at: mageofbabalon at gmail dot com.
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This is a NSFW Blog for me to post photos that I've stumbled across that have inspired me, but also phrases and writings that equally inspire.. Not for the young or easily offended.
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So I just got this delivered… happy to have picked it up cheap on eBay. Not *entirely* sure what to do with it… Some kind of towel hook, perhaps?
Ah well, I’m sure it’ll prove useful if the American Whore visits again…
Abandon is all - all pretence, all control, all dignity - and break… and come to my arms. Let me hold you while you shudder, let me feel the depths of you well up and pass… Let me hold all sorrow in my arms, and feel fear fall away. There is nothing my arms cannot encompass, nothing that I will not sit through with perfect patience and acceptance.
The demons may roar, but they will grow weak against my certainty. Your ghosts may visit, but my presence will dispel their power. Your prison walls may seem high, but we will watch them fall together.
Just give everything, release everything, abandon everything… and come to me. I will take care of all the rest.
(via sweetlysexual)
Most men can figure out a way to fuck that shakes the body… some will understand how to shake the emotions… fewer yet will shift the thoughts and the mind… But it takes a Dom, a good Dom, an experienced Dom, a Dom who is present, purposeful and aware of his Will… it takes a Dom to fuck in a way that shakes the soul. That transforms, shifts, reorganises the self. A fuck that is felt long after the fuck is done, because nothing is ever quite the same again…
We go deep, so very deep, into the self… and nothing we touch is ever quite the same again.
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It seems my girls feel a little threatened by how polite the Tumblerinas are when they get in touch with me.
I suppose they feel threatened because they are too lazy to make an equal effort themselves…
Seeing a girl’s body probably used and abused is a little too rare - seeing her body scarred, her skin marked, her cunt stretched, her emotions pouring forth… seeing her humiliated, broken and distressed… How divine to see a girl going all the way, taking it all, hopelessly out of control and being utterly and thoroughly consumed. A girl taken to her limits and beyond, a girl finding her place, a girl being transformed… So wonderful to see.
(via sweetlysexual)
Yes, I do love dirty girls…
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Ah, that perpetual fight a girl experiences between wanting to take everything that I wish to give, and feeling it’s too much and that she needs to defend herself, to stop it… I love that moment of fight where a girl wants me to stop… but then remembers who she is, remembers what she’s for, and forces herself to let me continue… no matter how difficult it is.
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3000 and up…
I’ve not thought about my follower count very much of late, but I’ve recently burst through the 3000 barrier which is… remarkable and lovely. Thank you all for following along, and I hope I continue to entertain, stimulate and provoke.
Particular thanks to those of you who have paid me the compliment of asking such interesting and provocative questions of late, who have been kind enough to feel I could help with my answers. Whilst I very much enjoy writing all the filthy captions, and generally allowing my id to run rampant, I do also very much enjoy the opportunity to share my experiences and whatever insight I’ve gained over the years. I very much appreciate the reaction I get to these pieces, and it’s very gratifying to know that, in some cases at least, it’s made a difference.
D/s is, as I so often say, a truly wonderful, life enhancing, thing. It is, however, complicated and difficult and too often mis-understood. I very much enjoy the opportunity I have to explore and illustrate some of the pleasures it brings, the excitement and passion it evokes, the beauty and terror of the D/s dynamic… as well as the approaches, attitudes and knowledge that make it possible, practical and safe. That’s the balance we all strive for - to go so deep into the darkness we forget about the light for a while… whilst ensuring our path back is reliably marked, and that we can retrace our steps safely, and return happily into the place we live.
Thanks to all of you who have got in touch with comments, questions, or thanks - I do appreciate it every time, and I do try to get around to answering everyone in the end… even if there is a bit of a pause sometimes. It does, still, always happy to see my inbox with a number above it.
Now, maybe I’ll see about coming up with something to ‘celebrate’ the extra followers… Hmmm… what to do… what to do…
Take care all of you, and thanks for following along…
Your choice, your predicament, your decisions lead you here. Don’t blame me if the Dom and sadist you have chosen to make yourself helpless before is about to do something deeply unpleasant to you.
I’m not doing it because I’m vindictive, or because I’m angry, or because I dislike you. Far from it. I’m going to do it because making you scream makes me hard. Because your tears excite me. Because when you thrash and curse and beg and sob it makes your cunt wet, and I like seeing your cunt wet. If you are beautiful and naked before me these things will happen - I will hurt you, I will humiliate you, I will make you cry, I will make you beg, and I will use your body and fuck you. I really don’t care how annoyed about it you seem… in this time, in this space, this is what you’re for.
Your suffering excites me, your body tempts me, and I will satisfy my desire by using you… completely and without restraint. I know… at heart… that’s what you need… and have always needed…
They will test the chains that bind, they will examine them and find their limits. They will ensure they are tight and secure. They will seek out the weakest point and discover if there is any chance of escape. They don’t do it because they wish to get away, but because they need to be certain that they cannot.
Subs test us - not because they are bad subs. But to ensure we are not bad Doms.
(via bunnyslaveprincess)